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No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it. – The Bible
Dear Friend, Are you obsessed with one of the sexual desires? It could be lust, masturbation, a relationship outside marriage, or pornographic xxx videos. Does your heart feel guilty every time you get involved in the obsession?
You don’t want to see that video but end up watching it. You don’t want to do that secret stuff. But not able to control their desires. The fulfillment of desire gives short-term pleasure. But after a few minutes, the heart loses its peace. The guilty feeling sinks in. There is a feeling of defeat.
Do you want to break this cycle in life? Let’s look at some practical facts before going to the spiritual ones. At the end of this message, we want to pray with you. Jesus will answer the prayers. He will break the chains of sexual obsession that are binding everyone who is reading this.
Jesus loves you. You are His precious child. He will never let you down. He wants to release you from every chain that is holding you. You can read more here.
God has done great things for those who seek him with all their hearts. Many wrote their testimonies with a thankful heart. You can read their testimonies here. Jesus can do the same for you, too. He wants to set you free.
We reap what we Sow:
We reap what we sow. The seeds we plant produce different kinds of fruits, vegetables, and flowers. The apple tree produces only apple fruits and not orange fruits. No one will question this natural fact. It applies not only to plants but also to humans. We produce our own kind.
The same applies to our spiritual life. We reap what we sow. We reap hatred if we plant the seed of hatred in our lives. If we plant the seeds of sins, we reap their fruits. What goes around comes around. The logical cycle can never be broken except through God’s forgiveness.
God desires to forgive our past and redeem us. He wants to break our uncontrolled obsession and help plant seeds of good nature. If you want to understand in-depth how it works, you can read =>
Dear friend, if you are living with your partner outside of marriage, please get into a marriage relationship. If you are in a married relationship, never try to go outside and seek pleasure from someone else. You can read how to convert a living-together relationship to a married one.
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What we plant produces fruits:
My dear friend, all the seeds we plant produce their fruits. The good seed produces many good fruits. The bad seed produces many bad fruits. Similarly, you might watch pornographic videos secretly without anyone knowing. It might show a lady you don’t know.
What if the seed we plant in our hearts grows and produces fruit? In other words what if that person is replaced by somebody close to our family? What if it happens to your daughter or someone you love so much?
Are you are trying to have a relationship with someone outside your marriage? What if somebody you love does it with another person without your knowledge? It will create great pain in your heart.
Please think. Whatever we plant as a small seed out of wrong desires grows and gives fruits in multiple forms. It produces bitter fruits.
Bible says Can a man take fire to his chest and his clothes not be burned? Does anyone need to experiment to understand what will happen in this scenario? Even when the fire is at a distance, our mind knows how dangerous it is. Dear friend,
There is a way to stop this seed from growing and yielding bitter fruit. You need to go to God and ask for forgiveness. You need an encounter with God who has paid for all your mistakes. It does not matter what you have done in the past; Jesus wants to forgive it all today. Are you ready to receive it? He is waiting for you.
Why do you go through what you go through?
Have you ever wondered why you feel guilty just after you have fulfilled your uncontrollable desires? Your heart is supposed to be happy.
You should be rejoicing because the desire was fulfilled. Why does the heart pound faster and feel guilty just after you finish masturbating or have sex with a partner outside marriage?
The heart says that you have done something wrong in your life. It declares that you just planted the wrong seed.
The Bible says Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Satan is in the business of making people obsessed and making them slaves to him. He wants to deceive everyone and make them servants to His authority.
All obsession start with small things. The beginning was too small. You might have thought this is okay to do. Apostle Paul wrote Everything is permissible for me, but not all things are beneficial. Everything is permissible for me, but I will not be enslaved by anything [and brought under its power, allowing it to control me].
We might think the small pleasure of secretly staring at a lady will not bring any harm to life. Secretly dreaming about another man or a lady is a seed that was softly planted in some of our hearts. Satan is in the business of trying to bring us under his control. Do you want to come out of this obsession? Do you want to be free? Jesus can help you right now.
Who is the enemy?
The Bible says For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.
Your fight is never against your own flesh but against the rulers and authorities of cosmic power, who induce you to do things you don’t like to do. We do have weapons to fight against the invisible enemy.
We must seek God to help us conquer temptation. He will equip us with His power to win the battle against the enemy. With God’s power, any obsession can be broken. The blood of Jesus can release you from all obsessions.
Please surrender your life to God. Let Him lead the fight and help you overcome. Holy Spirit Can free us from the past.
One Master
Dear friend, there can not be two masters in your life. You need to choose who is your master. You will love one and hate the other. If you are obsessed to sexual temptations today then who is your master?
Jesus said No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other.
Do you want to accept God as your master? If God is your master, you can’t do anything without seeking His permission. You belong to God and God alone. Chose your master carefully today. Jesus wants to give you peace and take away your guilty conscience.
James, the brother of Jesus, wrote So submit to [the authority of] God. Resist the devil [stand firm against him] and he will flee from you. Do you want to make Jesus your master? Then submit to His authority. Make Him your master right away.
Dear friend, God wants you to be free. Jesus died for your past mistakes. He wants to redeem you and make you free. Dear friend, place your hands on your heart. Jesus is going to set you free from all the sexual obsession right now. He alone has the power to release. Allow the power of the Holy Spirit in your life. Are you ready to put your trust in Him and Believe? Let’s pray together.
Dear Jesus, I come today to your presence. God, you know my life and what happened in my past. You know all my past mistakes. Jesus, I ask for forgiveness. Please forgive me. I have been deceived and obsessed. I want to be free from the sexual obsession. I want to live a pure life. I believe the precious blood of Jesus can release me today. Set me free.
Please help me. Be my master from today. Help me to listen to you and obey you. Let me make my choices in life after consulting you. Forgive the wrong choices I have made. Let me throw away all the sinful desires and flee from them.
Release me. You have shed your precious blood to release me from all my obsession. Wash me and renew my mind. Change me and help me flee. Let me hate my obsessions and follow you with all my heart. May my heart love you with all my strength, soul, and mind. In Jesus’s name, I pray. Amen.
Dear Friend, Jesus wants to make you His own child. Ask for forgiveness for your past life. Jesus will forgive you. He will renew your life and lead you like a father leads His own child. Please humble your heart and pray to Jesus. If you want to know how you can become a child of Jesus, you can read here =>
We are praying for you. Jesus will surely bring peace and joy in your life and release you from all your problems. May God bless you and make you a blessing for many.
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I am a 14year old in Nigeria also struggling with porn and masturbation i am so ashamed of my self but after reading this word I went to study my Bible and pray and I got to understand something and its that temptation will always come it is left to us whether we give in or not thank you Jesus
Dear Favour, Jesus loves you. He wants to fight you battles. Please invite Jesus into your life. He will help you give you strength to overcome everything in your life. We are praying for you. May Jesus bless you.
If you have office or anyone i can meet for talk and guide. I will sincerely appreciate it. I know Jesus, I’m sure He knows me too, yet, this one sin i find hard to let go. Tis 11 years already and I’m tired. Pls help!
Dear Daniel, we do not have offices. But Jesus is with you wherever you are right now. He wants to help you. The power of God can help fight the battles you are going through. He will surely lift you up and bring you out. The Bible says, “Surely the arm of the LORD is not too short to save, nor his ear too dull to hear. He will bring you out.” Do not worry. We are praying for you. May Jesus bless you and make you a overcomer in your life. Keep in touch.
Greetings to you all servants of God, just wanted to say that I’ve been struggling with pornography and masturbation addictions even after knowing God I don’t know what to do anymore it’s like am tired of this life I need God’s mercy 🙏😥 nd thank you for the wonderful and powerful words of encouragement God bless you all in Jesus’name aaaaaamen 🙏
Dear Nicolas, Jesus loves you. What is not possible to overcome is possible for God. He can help us by giving power and strength to overcome. Please place all your hope on Him. We are praying for you. May Jesus bless you.